In order to create a safer space, some of our events are invite-only.  By applying for membership and attending our events, you are agreeing to abide by our terms.

Code of Conduct

Creating a Community

  • Always get consent! Don’t EVER touch anybody, or their possessions, without permission. This includes even seemingly innocuous exchanges such as hugs. Just ask first.

  • Be welcoming. We aim to create a safe space for attendees of all backgrounds and experience levels. This means being friendly and willing to inform those who may be new and curious. 

  • Be vigilant. All play parties are staffed with experienced dungeon monitors(DMs). However, if you experience or witness anything concerning, please report it to the DMs or party hosts immediately. You can also always email rosypeachesevents@gmail.com.

  • No hate! Racism, Sexism, Hate-speech, Queerphobia, Transphobia, and Kink-Shaming are NOT permitted. 

  • Keep a respectful distance. Avoid getting accidentally hit by giving scenes a wide berth. Never insert yourself or interrupt someone’s scene without an explicit invitation (this includes talking, heckling, cheering, or teasing). And be aware that individuals may prefer time and space after a scene for aftercare. 

  • Watch respectfully. Voyeuring is allowed, but please be chill. Don’t leer, stare, stalk, or be a creep.

  • No pay-for-play. Professionals are always welcome at our parties, but please keep all paid encounters for your private sessions.

  • Clean up after yourself. Cleaning supplies are available in every room. Please wipe down surfaces before and after play. 

  • No drama. Don’t gossip or stir up trouble. Save the high school stuff for roleplay.

Dress Code

  • Dress up a little! Cocktail attire, Fetishwear, Lingerie, and (theme-appropriate) Costumes are the preferred dress code for our parties. Any individual who puts little to no effort into their appearance may not be invited back. Nudity is permitted during scenes.

  • Be discreet when entering the building. Our location is in a residential neighborhood. Once inside, feel free to disrobe.

Consent &
Negotiation

  • All attendees agree to abide by the tenets of Enthusiastic Informed Consent.

  • Informed Consent is when all parties understand what is being agreed to without a shadow of a doubt. If you don’t understand how something is done, or the risk profile associated with it, you are not informed and therefore you cannot consent.

  • Enthusiastic Consent looks like:

    • “Yes” = Yes

    • “Hell Yes!” = Yes

    • “Fuck Yeah!” = Yes

    • “No” = No

    • “No thank you” = No

    • “Not right now” = No

    • “Maybe” = No

    • “Maybe later” = No

  • Take no for an answer, and don’t take it personally. Do not continually ask someone to play after they have said no, or you may be asked to leave. 

  • Don’t be afraid to say no. If you’re not enthusiastic, then you shouldn’t consent. If another attendee won’t take no for an answer, please inform a DM.

  • When negotiating, know your limits and take personal responsibility for your boundaries. Remember to listen not only to what is being said, but also how it’s being said.

  • Do not brat without consent. Not only could it be misconstrued as an invitation to play, but bratting is a hard limit for some people. Negotiate first. Bratting without permission will be considered a consent violation.

  • Do not negotiate (or attempt to renegotiate) mid-scene. If sudden inspiration strikes, save it for “next time!” Also note that consent can be withdrawn at any time, including mid-scene. If you need to stop mid-scene, do not hesitate to use a safeword.

  • If you aren’t 100% sure that you have consent to do something to someone, don’t do it! When in doubt, ask and be explicit.

  • Remember that almost all spanking play is non-sexual. If you wish to incorporate any kind of sexual or erotic elements into your scene, be very clear and negotiate everything beforehand. (And please see the Acceptable and Non-Acceptable Forms of Play sections below.)

Safewords

  • The house Safeword is “Red.” Any safeword may be used if agreed to prior to play, but the default is the stoplight system: Red for stop, Yellow for pause, and Green for go.

  • Failure to stop play when a safeword is used will result in dismissal from the event. 

Acceptable
Forms of Play

  • Rosy Peaches is a spanking play party, so we ask that you limit your play to activities in that realm. 

  • Spanking play includes most common forms of impact play, such as bare-handed spanking, caning, paddling, strapping, whipping, flogging, etc. 

  • Other related activities such as role-playing, scolding, corner time, using restraints, hair pulling, or mouth soaping are also welcome and encouraged. 

  • This section is more of a guideline than a rule, intended to make everyone comfortable and to celebrate our love of spanking play. We won’t interrupt your scene (unless your play violates our rules) because you decided to incorporate a little rope bondage, foot worship, and/or face slapping, etc. But please save your strictly non-spanking BDSM scenes for the many BDSM play parties available throughout Los Angeles.

Unacceptable
Forms of Play

  • Edge play is discouraged at our parties. This includes but is not limited to, breath play, blood, fire, electro, knife, consensual non-consent, scat, and water sports. Please consult a DM or party host if you have any questions regarding Edge Play.

  • NO genital-genital contact or oral-genital contact is allowed. 

  • NO penetrative sexual contact is allowed. This includes fingers, dildos, toys, etc.

  • External (non-penetrative) sexual stimulation is permitted but ONLY if it is negotiated prior to the scene. DO NOT EVER engage in sexual contact of ANY kind without Enthusiastic Informed Consent.

Drug & Alcohol Policy

  • Alcohol is permitted at our events and all attendees must be 21+. You must check your bottle at the bar. Light mixers and bartenders will be available. 

  • Consent requires that everyone involved is capable of understanding the risks of a scene and capable of making decisions. Drugs and alcohol make that harder. By attending our events you are agreeing to hold yourself accountable for your consumption. Drink responsibly. Anyone who appears to be overserved will be asked to leave.

  • No recreational drugs are permitted at our events. Tobacco and marijuana products are permitted outside only. Remember to dress appropriately when going outside.

Confidentiality, Phones, & Photography

  • Be discreet. Never disclose any personal information of another party-goer to anyone without permission. You are welcome to share as much of your own personal information as you wish.

  • Phones may only be used in designated areas. If we see you on your phone in a play space, you will be asked to put it away or exit the space.

  • Photography of any kind is strictly prohibited. We take the privacy and security of all our guests seriously.